If there’s one piece of advice I always give as a wedding planner, it’s do not rush into the details right after your proposal. 
 
There’s a natural urge to immediately dive into bookings, Pinterest boards, and all things wedding—but the start of your engagement is a season for discovery. Take a step back and give yourself grace to soak in your fiancée era. 

Being a fiancée is a special chapter of your life and such a meaningful time in your journey as a bride-to-be. It’s your chance to process the emotions that come with such a big commitment, and to begin shaping your vision—not just for the wedding, but for how you want to feel throughout the whole experience. After all, you only get to live this feeling once, and trust us, it’s worth savoring. 

When you get engaged, one of the most enjoyable parts is celebrating in a way that feels right, along with the beautiful excitement of imagining a future together. Think of it as a celebration before the big celebration. Create meaningful memories beyond just your wedding day. With things like: hosting a bridal brunch, a vision board night, or even a spa day with your bridal party. These moments don’t have to be elaborate or expensive, but time spent bonding and truly enjoying each other’s presence without the pressures of planning.

Another essential part of this time is self-care, both emotional and physicall. Create a routine and try things that bring you peace and joy. Try a new pilates class, get facials, experiment with bridal looks—this is your moment to pour into yourself just as much as you pour into the process. Your wedding experience does’t have to be stressful. 

As time goes by, the details and trends fade. But the feeling of being engaged and the memory of that time is what you’ll remember forever. That sweet in between filled with so much anticipation. 

Your wedding day will pass in the blink of an eye, and any past bride can attest to that. That’s why your moments as a fiancee, are so important to cherish and be present. 

Don’t let the planning process overshadow the magic of it. Savor the quiet moments, the little joys of a future together and calling each other “fiancé.” You won’t be engaged forever, but the way you show up for each other during this time will quietly shape the foundation of what comes next.